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Saturday, June 7th, 2003
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8:45 pm - ...and Now a Word From Our Sponser
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| Friday, September 14th, 2001
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8:37 pm - Don't Point that Thing at Me!
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Warning: Written on minimal sleep.
I am so numb. Well, maybe numb isn't exactly the word I'm looking for. I can feel fear. I feel it every time a plane flies overhead, or when a police car or fire truck or ambulance goes by (and there have been a lot of them lately, and I live in Arlington, MA). I have to sleep with my fans on, despite that fact that it is now cooler at night, just to drown out some of the noise. Otherwise I'd be up all night.
I have spent hours watching the news, because that seems to be all you can watch on TV lately. Is it really necessary to repeatedly show the people jumping from the towers? Just hearing about it was enough for me. And then there were the emails I read from the mailing lists I'm on. At first they contained condolences, wishes, thoughts and opinions. Then nasty comments started popping up.
*sigh*
I would be the first to agree that America is far from the great country it's touted as being.
We talk about propaganda in other countries, yet the same thing has been going on in our own backyard. Am I the only one who heard about how the US government was at one time using mentally disabled people as guinea pigs?
We talk about freedom. Meanwhile the freedom of choice is being threatened; freedom of religion doesn't seem to apply to all religions; the freedom to just be is often determined by race or ethnic background; don't get me started on freedom of speech.
We show much concern for the hungry and the homeless... in other countries.
But, as screwed up as we are, we didn't deserve this.
We, as a country, seem to live by the rule of "every man for himself". It's wonderful that we come together in times of tragedy, but it's not enough. We need to do much more. If we want to make this world a better place, then we need to get off our asses and get to work; stop expecting others to do it for us.
We can no longer take our freedom for granted. Some of us are already aware of this. Now, hopefully, the rest of the country is, too.
I created A Web Site Created by Babs to invite people into my world, to peek into the mind of one person of many on this huge planet. I created the Gen-X Essays to offer my ideas and opinions in hopes of getting other people talking. Both were built with the idea that one person can make a difference. And I intend to make as much of a difference as I possibly can.
The question is, now, how many of you will be joining me?
Babs
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| Tuesday, August 7th, 2001
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8:23 pm - Sex!!!
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Porgy loves Bess,
Bianca loves Mick,
And everybody knows Liz loves Dick!
~ "Sex" by The Fools
Now that I have your attention...
This essay contains my thoughts and opinions about others' thoughts and opinions regarding such topics as sex, sex education, homosexuality, and abortion. Once upon a time these issues weren't, well, issues, but ever since they day we supposedly lowered our moral standard they have become hot topics for discussion.
First of all, I'd like to make it perfectly clear that I think sex is a good thing. And I'm not just saying that because I've been having it for more years than my parents would care to know about. Sex, regardless of who or what is doing it, is how we keep life on this planet. I don't see anything bad or shameful about that, but if you do well then don't do it!
Now, I won't say there aren't things out there that make me squeamish, because there are. But I'm not going around telling other people they can't do what feels good to them, just because I don't agree with it. As long as you're not hurting anyone (including yourself), then it's just fine with me.
Sex Education in schools. I do not have a problem with this. In fact, I think the earlier the better. Kids need to learn what their bodies are capable of. They need to know what's out there and how it affects them. They have to be made aware of the possible consequences of their actions. Keeping this information from them is not going to keep them from having sex. It is, however, going to keep them from making intelligent decisions about sex.
This does not mean that Sex Education in school should replace parental responsibility. Instead the two should compliment each other. I try to answer my kids questions whenever they have them, and enlighten them whenever they seem to need it. It is a day to day process.
When I was in highschool I had a friend who was gay. He would often talk about getting a partial sex change and I once ran into him hanging out on the streets selling himself. While his private life made me rather uncomfortable at the time, and peer pressure was responsible for a few acts of stupidity on my behalf, I still managed to keep him as a friend up until he disappeared.
What negativity I might have felt toward homosexuality back in school was blasted away during my stint at a video store in Cambridge a few years later. It's pretty damn hard to dislike someone because of their sexual preference when half your co-workers are either gay or bi. First you learn to live with them, then you realize they're good people.
Not too long ago the Governor of Massachusetts started insisting we needed to change the state constitution to make it clear that gay marriages were wrong. She and her followers stated that we needed to preserve the sanctity of marriage, claiming that such a bond was meant for couples in order to have children. Okay, so why are all these hetro couples who are unable to have children being allowed to marry? Hey, let's be consistent here, folks.
Knowing a set of twins who are both gay, I've long since come to the conclusion that homosexuality is genetic. I'd even go as far as saying that Mother Nature intended it to be one of her more positive forms of population control. Having couples who don't reproduce is much nicer than having to wipe out half the world with a plague.
Sure, this country was founded on good, clean, wholesome Christian values, but has anyone stopped to think about who had the country before it was founded? I don't know how our Native American friends feel about gays, but I'm sure they probably aren't anywhere near as tight-assed as the Puritans were. And speaking of which, didn't these people come to this country to flee from religious persecution? Nice to know we're not being hypocritical.
As I already mentioned I believe Mother Nature created a system of checks and balances to keep the human population under control. Over the years, we've managed to totally trash that system. Homosexuality has become a sin, we are now "immune" to many illnesses that where once deadly, and we can now protect ourselves from most of our predators. Too bad there are still too many clueless people out there who don't realize that we no longer need to mass produce offspring.
I'm sure I can't be only one to see the signs of the good Mother going to extremes to bail our asses out of the messes we've created. Why do you think we have AIDS? Sorry, but "to cleanse our world of those sinners" is not the correct answer. If AIDS isn't the biggest wake up call to the overpopulation problem, I don't know what is. AIDS is a plague. A special plague. While it's main job, like most plagues, is to wipe out as many people as possible, it also has the purpose of population control. See, if folks spent more time protecting themselves instead of whining for a cure or vaccine, we'd already be making strides in eradicating this disease. And through abstinence and safe sex, we can also put a dent in overpopulation.
Violence is also a sign. Science has shown us that as the world becomes more crowded people become more violent. It's just a simple fact of self preservation. We haven't completely eliminated our predators; we have just forgotten about ourselves.
And then there's infertility and sterility. I so want to bitch slap those who claim abortion is "playing god", but look the other way when a woman is taking fertility drugs. I can almost hear WuFei screaming, "Injustice!" If you are not able to have kids on your own, then consider adoption. Don't be selfish when there are millions of children out there looking to become a part of a family.
Don't bash those who are pro-choice. Remember: Not everyone follows the same belief system you do. In fact, abortion predates Judeo-Christian beliefs, so stop riding the backs of those who think differently. Until the day when there's a form of birth control that is 100% effective, and is available to everyone, then abortion should be kept legal (and covered by health insurance). And while we're at it birth control should be covered by all health insurance plans. *glares at George "Dubbya" Bush*.
Alrighty now, I think I've covered everything I wanted to say. So let's sum up: Sex is good. It's just us that are bad. :o) But we can become better people by being open minded and responsible. You are not the only person on this planet; we are not the only species. Start looking at the big picture.
Babs
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| Saturday, June 9th, 2001
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6:56 pm - www.housekeeping.com
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August 8, 2001 A Web Site Created by Babs celebrates its 3rd birthday. That is quite a milestone for a web site, especially a personal one.
I bring this up because not too long ago a friend and I were talking about vanishing web sites. He was on a mission to find some Power Ranger sites, but all he seemed to be finding was practically every other site listed in the search engine he was using no longer existed. I found the same thing when I was going through the links at the Link-o-Rama. About one quarter of the links had to be removed because their corresponding sites were gone, or they had been changed to a point were they were no longer relevant to their links. I'm sorry, but if I click on a link for a Pokemon site I expect to be taken to a Pokemon site. Not one about Weiss Kreuz.
Just as frustrating is the site that announces it's closed. Why freakin' bother telling us this? Just take it down!
Web sites are like children. If you're not willing to put in the time and effort into taking care of it, then it's better that you not have one. Now, I admit, I've been known to slack off on the updates. But I do update. This isn't the same site it was 3 years ago. I'm always trying to improve it, making it more fun, more interesting, to visit. The concept, however, has remained the same: It's still a web site, I created it, and I'm still Babs.
Periodically I update my site's info with the search engines, even though I haven't made any drastic changes to its content. I've found some search engines will even delete information that's more than six months old. Unfortunately, most rely on us to either submit updates or tell them about broken links. If your site has metamorphosed and you haven't alerted this change to the search engines, you deserve all the flames you get!
Contrary to what the free web space providers tell you, bandwidth isn't really free. And it's costing more each day. Sure, you're not paying an actual out-of-the pocket expense, but look at you have to put up with:
Banner ads. Not really a new thing, in fact many providers are now offering ways to jazz them up. They should, since quite a few of these providers are now banning all ads from personal web sites, aside from the provider's own, of course.
Pop-ups. Have you noticed those little buggers are getting more persistent? It used to be you could bump them down to your task bar, where they'd sit and behave (at least with MSIE they did). Now, more and more are popping back up when you go to another page. Some don't even wait that long, opting to annoy the hell out of you every few seconds. With Tripod, whose pop-ups still usually behave, they are still the lesser of the two evils.
Anti-remote loading programming. This is the newest addition to the restriction lists most providers have. It means you can't load graphics from one site (even if it's your own) to another site. While this does prevent bandwidth theft. It also prevents those of us who use graphics on message boards, or include banners with their URLs in polls, from doing so. It's supposed to save money. Providers would save a lot more if their members just didn't waste bandwidth.
So, exactly how does one waste bandwidth? Well the aforementioned closed site is a good example. If you don't have time for it, close the account. If you can't do that, at least delete the files associated with that account.
Anything that needlessly slows loading time is also a waste, not to mention makes me wish I could strangle the site's owner! Yes, I know I have a few large files floating around my site, in fact my faveduo.gif on my Just Who Do I Think I Am? page weighs in at 27.4KB on it's own. But if you consider it used to be 89KB, as well as the fact that most of my pages are under 50KB, including their graphics (and some are even below 30KB), you can see my site is nowhere near as offensive (size-wise) as it could be.
If I want to listen to music while I surf I'll open up Real Jukebox, and as cute as Chibi-Quatre is sitting on his camel, I think turning him into a background is a bit excessive. Remember, size does matter.
Now that the main portion of my site has been successfully moved to a new account, I'm about to deconstruct the old site. The index page will remain, just so those who haven't visited in a while will know the site's new home. After six months that will be gone, too. Any files currently not in use on the active accounts are also removed. Because of my diligence A Web Site Created by Babs and it's "satelsites", The Pinkish Pages and The Lavender Room, take up less than 4MB of space, total, on the World Wide Web. Not bad, eh?
To wrap things up I'd like to reiterate that a web site isn't something one should create just so they can say they have one. It should serve some real purpose. Some may argue that my site does little more than feed my ego. They could very well be right. But as for that "little more", well thanks to my web site, I've made new friends, been found by old ones, and was reunited with a part of my family I never thought I'd hear from again. It has also outlived many other sites. I think it's going to be here for quite a while.
Babs
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